Honestly, yes! But everyone has the right to make decisions about their life, even if these choices seem wrong to us. All we can do as a healthcare professional is to provide them with enough information so that they can make an informed choice and give our medical opinion without forcing them into anything. We should also listen to their concerns and perhaps speak to their family if that is what the patient wants. If the person is of sound mind, ultimately the final decision lies with them.
It’s important to recognise our human reactions; patients need us to be human, but remain objective enough to offer them our expertise enough for them to make the decision that works for them.
If we couldn’t accept a decision we wouldn’t make ourselves then we risk imposing our will on the patient. That wouldn’t be a healthy or therapeutic relationship.
I don’t find it too difficult. It’s my job to present the information, help patients to understand the options and what would happen if they don’t wish to have the treatment which is suggested. I always respect my patient’s right to make a decision that works for them, even if it is not something that I would do myself.
Its definitely an uncomfortable experience when this happens but we try to better their understanding by explaining all the options and then it is their choice to make and shouldn’t be influenced by us.
Comments
Samantha commented on :
Yes same as Jess, we’re here to help and advice and provide the care and support however they may need it
Anna commented on :
Yes, try to find out why though sometimes it’s something that’s been misunderstood that you can talk through, don’t jump to conclusions.
Ruby commented on :
Its definitely an uncomfortable experience when this happens but we try to better their understanding by explaining all the options and then it is their choice to make and shouldn’t be influenced by us.